Month: June 2019

Am I making the right decision?

At one point or another, many birth mothers may question their decision to move forward with an adoption. This uncertainty is a natural inclination for many. Nevertheless, it is a feeling that should not be shamed. Even more, it should be a doubt that is addressed head-on with an adoption specialist.

Often times, we can find solace in adoption movies, adoption success stories, and adoption statistics. Even more, this reassurance extends to quotes, mantras, songs that we can recite in times of distress.

As you address your fears with a licensed adoption specialist, ease your uncertainty with these inspirational adoption quotes for birth mothers to help guide you through this difficult decision.

Inspirational Adoption Quotes for Birth Mothers

Wisdom to Guide Decision-Making

Making the decision to proceed with adoption may be the hardest step. Find comfort and inspiration from these adoption quotes for birth mothers.

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“Adoption is the hardest thing you will probably ever do in your life. You feel like your heart is being ripped out. But, if you are doing it for the right reasons, your life will be truly blessed forever.” -Laura Gladden

“Trust your instincts, and make judgments on what your heart tells you. The heart will not betray you.” -David Gemmell

“There is a time when we must firmly choose the course which we will follow or the endless drift of events will make the decision for us.” -Herbert V. Prochnow

“A birth mother puts the needs of her child above the needs of her heart.” -Skye Hardwick

“There are two different kinds of strength. There’s a strength to make a parenting plan and then there’s a strength to give that plan to another.” -Unknown

“Love is unselfishly choosing for another’s highest good.” -C.S. Lewis

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Courage Mantras

Find courage in moments of doubt with these adoption inspirational quotes and mantras for birth mothers.

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“In adoption, a child is not given up. A birth mother gives life, gives a child a family, unconditional love. She gives a part of her heart that will never feel whole. She gives another mother a part of her heart that was missing.” -Terra Cooper

“You must never be fearful about what you are doing when it is right.” -Rosa Parks

“Let us sacrifice our today so that our children can have a better tomorrow.” -A.P.J. Abdul Kalam

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Reassurance Post-Adoption

As said before, doubt is a natural emotion that may occur in any stressful situation like adoption. Take comfort from these adoption inspirational quotes confronting post-adoption guilt and doubt.

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“The most important part of my adoption journey was realizing that my decision to place did not mean that I was not good enough. It was my circumstances, not my ability as a mother, that made placement the right decision for me.” -Annaleece Merrill

“In the end, we discover that to love and to let go can be the same thing.” -Jack Kornfield

“One word frees us of all the weight and pain of life, and that word is love.” -Sophocles

“You cannot swim for new horizons until you have the courage to lose sight of the shore.” -William Faulkner

“Some people believe holding on and hanging in there are signs of great strength. However, there are times when it takes much more strength to know when to let go and then do it.” –Ann Landers

“He is mine in a way that he will never be hers, yet he is hers in a way that he will never be mine, and so together, we are motherhood.” -Desha Woodall

Seek Professional Advice

Texas Adoption Center staffs a team of expert adoption specialists to help guide you through the adoption process. They are dedicated to providing unbiased, confidential advice to help you make an informed decision about adoption. In addition, they enlist the services of an adoption lawyer to help you understand your birth mother rights.

Don’t wallow in your doubt seek the professional services of Texas Adoption Center and call 844-893-7943 for a private one-on-one session.

I’m pregnant! How do I tell my family?

Pregnancy can be a joyous occurrence for many; however, when it happens unexpectedly, it can leave a woman feeling lost and scared. This anxiety can be intensified at the thought of announcing the news to loved ones.

For those trying to determine how to tell your family about an unexpected pregnancy, stay tuned. We are going over five steps to help you take back control of an unexpected situation.

Tell Your Family About Unplanned Pregnancy: 5 Steps

Create a plan

In this situation, it is advisable to create a plan to decide how, when, and where you will tell your family. A few questions that you should take into consideration when creating an action plan are:

• Will you tell all of your family at once?
• Who is included in the discussion?
• Where will you feel most comfortable having this discussion?

Tell your family about your pregnancy on your terms. Create an action plan that you will use to take control of the situation. Later, we will cover what information you may or may not want to tell your family.

Build a support system

For many experiencing an unplanned pregnancy, navigating it alone can be a difficult task. Build a strong support system of people you trust to support you through this process. This person or group of people can include a close friend, relative, or mentor.

Everyone’s situation is different. For this reason, if you are wary of telling a close friend or relative, seek a professional who can guide and support you. In this case, contact a help network, adoption specialist, or otherwise to hash out an appropriate plan.

Determine what information you want to announce

This step is crucial when telling your family about an unexpected pregnancy. Beyond the pregnancy news, you must determine what extra information your willing to announce at that moment. Common questions that you may receive are:

• Who is the father?
• When did this happen?
• What are you going to do?

It is important to anticipate these questions and plan accordingly. Determine whether you want to answer these questions, or if you will divert the questions for another time. With this step, you can empower yourself and take control of the situation.

Practice with a trusted individual

Practice makes perfect! Determine how to tell your family about an unexpected pregnancy by practicing with a trusted individual. Additionally, this practice can be a welcome confidence booster for those who are unsure.

In addition, roleplay different situations that may occur. This may include a barrage of questions, crying individuals and more! Practice how you will navigate each situation, to control the situation.

Tell your family

With your plan in mind and support system nearby, tell your family about the unexpected pregnancy. This situation looks different for many people; nevertheless, keep a calm and collected composure and stick to the plan.

After, assess the outcome and begin planning your next steps! For many, this may mean determining your options to gauge which is best for your circumstances.

Plan Your Next Steps

You have several options when it comes to an unplanned pregnancy. A prominent option for many women dealing with an unplanned pregnancy is adoption. In addition, it can be a rewarding process for adoptive families.

The adoption specialists at Texas Adoption Center are here to help you determine whether adoption is the appropriate solution for your situation. Contact Texas Adoption Center at 844-893-7943 to discuss your options.

If you’re presented with an unplanned pregnancy, you may be feeling scared and overwhelmed. No matter what, know that there are options available, including adoption. Placing your baby for adoption can be a scary thing in its own right. Luckily, there are many kind and loving families out there that are willing and wanting to take on the responsibility of raising a child in a warm and loving home.

For mothers who are expecting and are on the fence about placing your baby for adoption, check out these adoption success stories that may spur you into action.

Find Inspiration From These Adoption Success Stories

“L” and the “D” Family

After a long match, baby “L” went home with the ‘D” family. They’re a loving family who cherishes and adores the newest addition to their family. Even more, birth mother “C” is at peace with her decision and is happy that “L” is with people who love and support her birth child.

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Sweet P and the “D-K” Family

Birth mother “J” couldn’t be happier with her adoption plan! The “D-K” family were so excited to bring Sweet P into their loving home. In addition, we were grateful to have been a part of this adoption success story! It’s safe to say that this family embodies the idea that love knows no bounds.

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Baby “M” and the “S” Family

This adoption story is a sweet success! A few months before the birth of baby “M,” the “S” family and birth mother “H” met and were able to develop a special bond. On the day of “M” birth, the “S” family supported “H” throughout the process. Today, “M” is showered with love from her adoptive family and birth mother. In the end, we’re so happy with how this adoption success story played out.

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Baby “L” and the “M” Family

The “M” family make the perfect team and were happy to welcome baby “L” into their loving home and happy lives. To this day, the “M” family thanks birth mother “N” for her courageous decision and are excited for what the future holds in store.

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Suzie and Baby Stella

Two years ago, Suzie had the wonderful chance of adopting Stella at birth, and their lives have been filled with love since then. Suzie had such a rewarding experience raising Stella that she wants to provide a loving environment for another child through Texas Adoption Center.

Take the First Steps!

Placing a baby for adoption can be a hard but rewarding decision for birth mothers! These are only a few of the many adoption stories that occur each year. Start your own at Texas Adoption Center.

Texas Adoption Center has the resources to help understand your making the right choice for you. We believe you should feel comfortable and confident with your decision, whatever that may be. Contact the main office today at 844-893-7943 to discuss your situation and options with an experienced adoption specialist.