
The financial impact of pregnancy and childbirth is one of the biggest stressors expectant mothers face. As pregnant women explore their options, many wonder how their pregnancy expenses will be paid.
If you are considering adoption, there are probably several questions swirling around your head. How much does adoption cost? How will I cover my living expenses during pregnancy? Who will pay my medical bills?
The good news is that there are resources to provide birth mothers with financial support during their pregnancy. Below, we’ll explore the birth mother expenses by state that can be covered by an adoptive family.
What expenses can a birth mother have during pregnancy?
Pregnancy expenses can include much more than medical bills. Depending on your circumstances, you may need help with:
- Prenatal visits, laboratory testing, medications, and hospital care
- Transportation to medical or adoption-related appointments
- Maternity clothing
- Food and groceries
- Housing, rent, or utilities
- Telephone expenses
- Counseling or other adoption-related services
- Legal services connected with the adoption
- Certain postpartum or recovery expenses
Whether an expense can be covered depends on state law, the circumstances of the adoption, the amount of the expense, and whether court or agency approval is required. The Children’s Bureau’s overview of private domestic adoption expenses provides a nationwide statutory reference, but it is based on law through May 2022 and should not substitute for confirmation of current state law.
How can a birth mother get financial support during pregnancy?
Choosing adoption is a brave and selfless decision. That’s why state regulations have changed. They now provide birth mothers with the respect and support they deserve through the adoption process.
If you are pregnant and considering adoption, you can explore multiple sources of financial and medical assistance. Adoption-related assistance is only one possible resource.
For medical care, Medicaid and CHIP provide free or low-cost coverage to eligible pregnant people, although eligibility and benefits differ by state. HealthCare.gov’s pregnancy coverage guidance explains how Medicaid, CHIP, and Marketplace coverage can help pay for pregnancy and childbirth.
In Texas, pregnant people can also apply for Medicaid for Pregnant Women and CHIP Perinatal, while Texas DSHS pregnancy resources identify programs involving prenatal care, nutrition, transportation, housing, and other support.
If you are considering adoption, an adoption professional can also explain which pregnancy-related expenses may legally be covered in your state. Financial assistance should not be treated as payment for consenting to adoption. State laws regulate what may be paid, to whom, and under what circumstances.
Does prenatal care matter if you are considering adoption?
Yes. Choosing adoption does not change the importance of receiving appropriate pregnancy care. The American College of Obstetricians and Gynecologists recommends starting prenatal care as soon as pregnancy is known or suspected. Prenatal care can include examinations, screening, education, counseling, and referrals to community resources.
ACOG’s current prenatal care guidance also specifically notes that transportation, food access, and social support can affect pregnancy health. If cost, transportation, housing, or another practical problem is making prenatal care difficult, tell your health care professional.
Seek medical care promptly for urgent warning signs such as significant vaginal bleeding, leaking fluid, severe abdominal pain, severe headache, trouble breathing, chest pain, or a noticeable decrease or stopping of fetal movement. The CDC’s urgent maternal warning signs guidance provides a fuller list and recommends immediate medical attention for these symptoms.
How do birth mother expenses work in each state?
State adoption laws use different terms and impose different limits. Some states expressly permit living expenses, while others focus primarily on medical, legal, counseling, or adoption-related expenses. Some states do not specifically address birth parent expenses in their adoption statutes.
The following is a practical summary of the categories identified in state law. It is not a promise that an expense will be approved in an individual adoption. Confirm the current rule with a licensed professional in your state before accepting or arranging payment.
Birth Mother Expenses By State
Birth mother expenses vary significantly by state. State law may allow prospective adoptive parents, adoption agencies, or other authorized parties to pay certain expenses for a person who is pregnant and considering adoption. These expenses can include medical care, housing, food, transportation, counseling, legal services, and other necessities.
Important: The expenses below describe categories that state law may permit. They do not mean that every birth mother automatically qualifies for every expense. Some states require court approval, impose dollar or time limits, require receipts or an accounting, or restrict payments based on the circumstances. Financial assistance also cannot be treated as payment for a person’s consent to adoption.
| State | Expenses Covered |
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| Alabama |
Alabama law permits certain payments as charitable assistance when they are not conditioned on adoption. Potentially covered expenses include:
Restrictions: Payments cannot be contingent on placing the child for adoption, consenting to adoption, or cooperating with the adoption. Court approval may be required for certain payments. Review Alabama’s adoption expense law, Ala. Code § 26-10A-34. |
| Alaska |
Alaska law permits certain expenses connected with pregnancy, childbirth, and adoption. Potentially covered expenses include:
Restrictions: The specific payment must be connected to the adoption and comply with Alaska’s adoption laws. |
| Arizona |
Arizona has one of the more detailed statutory provisions addressing payments to birth parents. Potentially covered expenses include:
Restrictions: A person may advance up to $1,000 in birth-parent living expenses without filing a motion. Living expenses exceeding $1,000 require court involvement. Arizona courts review adoption expenses for reasonableness and necessity, and payment cannot be compensation for giving or obtaining consent to adoption. |
| Arkansas | Arkansas law permits certain incidental expenses associated with pregnancy, childbirth, and postnatal care.
Potentially covered expenses include:
Restrictions: Expenses must be permitted under Arkansas adoption law and should be reviewed with the attorney or adoption professional handling the placement. |
| California |
California law permits certain adoption-related expenses for a birth parent. Potentially covered expenses include:
Restrictions: California law requires adoption-related expenses to be disclosed and places restrictions on payments that could constitute an improper financial benefit. Review California’s Family Code adoption provisions.
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| Colorado | Potentially covered expenses include:
Restrictions: Expenses should be reasonable and properly documented as required by Colorado adoption law. |
| Connecticut |
Connecticut substantially changed its birth-parent-expense law effective July 1, 2024. Potentially covered expenses include:
Restrictions: Payments or reimbursements generally must be made no earlier than 180 days before the expected date of birth and no later than 60 days after birth. The payments are subject to Probate Court approval. Unlike the former law, the current statute is not limited to the previous $1,500 living-expense amount. |
| Delaware |
Delaware has more restrictive rules concerning payments connected with private adoption. Potentially covered expenses include:
Restrictions: Delaware law restricts payments or contributions made in connection with placing a child for adoption. Do not assume that ordinary living expenses are permissible without obtaining state-specific legal advice. |
| District of Columbia | Potentially covered expenses include:
Restrictions: Payments must comply with District adoption regulations and applicable agency requirements. |
| Florida |
Florida provides one of the most detailed lists of permissible birth-mother expenses. Potentially covered expenses include:
Restrictions: Living expenses must be expenses the birth mother is unable to pay because of unemployment, underemployment, or disability. These expenses may be paid during pregnancy and for up to six weeks postpartum. Florida also requires an accounting of adoption expenses, and the court can reject expenses that are not permitted, reasonable, or properly supported. Review Florida Statutes § 63.097.
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| Georgia |
Potentially covered expenses include:
Restrictions: Georgia’s statutory provision is focused on medical expenses directly related to pregnancy and childbirth. Other living expenses should not be assumed to be covered without confirming the current law. |
| Hawaii |
Hawaii does not specifically address birth-parent expenses in its adoption statutes. Restrictions: Because there is not a specific statutory list of permissible birth-mother expenses, obtain advice from a Hawaii adoption attorney or licensed adoption professional before arranging financial assistance. |
| Idaho | Potentially covered expenses include:
Restrictions: Living expenses are subject to demonstrated financial need and applicable statutory requirements. |
| Illinois |
Potentially covered expenses include:
Restrictions: Statutory living expenses can extend for up to 60 days after birth. Illinois also permits certain gifts to a birth parent, but the total value of those gifts may not exceed the statutory limit.
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| Indiana | Potentially covered expenses include:
Restrictions: Living expenses are specifically addressed during the second and third trimesters, and additional expenses may require court approval. |
| Iowa |
Potentially covered expenses include:
Restrictions: Iowa places statutory limits on certain living expenses and requires expenses to be connected to pregnancy, childbirth, placement, or adoption.
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| Kansas |
Potentially covered expenses include:
Restrictions: Kansas law does not authorize expenses simply because they are requested. Expenses must fall within the categories permitted by statute and must be reasonable. |
| Kentucky |
Potentially covered expenses include:
Restrictions: Kentucky law restricts payments connected with adoption and should be reviewed with Kentucky adoption counsel before financial assistance is provided. |
| Louisiana |
Potentially covered expenses include:
Restrictions: Expenses must be reasonable and actual, and certain payments require court review. |
| Maine |
Potentially covered expenses include:
Restrictions: Expenses must comply with Maine’s adoption and child-placing-agency requirements.
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| Maryland | Potentially covered expenses include:
Restrictions: Food, clothing, and shelter expenses are tied to circumstances in which the birth mother is unable to work because of medical reasons associated with pregnancy or childbirth. |
| Massachusetts |
Massachusetts does not specifically address birth-parent expenses in its adoption statutes. Restrictions: Do not assume that a particular living or pregnancy expense can legally be paid simply because it is permitted in another state. |
| Michigan |
Potentially covered expenses include:
Restrictions: Michigan prohibits payments of money or anything of value in connection with adoption except for charges and fees permitted or approved under the statute. Adoption expenses are subject to court oversight. Review Michigan’s Adoption Code, including MCL 710.54.
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| Minnesota | Potentially covered expenses include:
Restrictions: Living expenses are connected to loss of income or other support resulting from pregnancy. Minnesota is also among the states that restrict certain categories of payments that could provide an improper financial benefit. |
| Mississippi |
Potentially covered expenses include:
Restrictions: Expenses must be reasonable and connected with the adoption or pregnancy. |
| Missouri |
Potentially covered expenses include:
Restrictions: Living expenses must be reasonable and within the norms of the community where the birth mother resides. Missouri law also regulates expenses that are not expressly authorized. |
| Montana |
Potentially covered expenses include:
Restrictions: Montana limits certain counseling payments and restricts payments that could provide an improper financial benefit. |
| Nebraska |
Nebraska does not specifically address birth-parent expenses in its adoption statutes. Restrictions: Because there is no specific statutory list of permissible birth-parent expenses, obtain current Nebraska legal guidance before arranging payments. |
| Nevada |
Potentially covered expenses include:
Restrictions: Nevada law regulates payments made in connection with adoption and requires expenses to be connected to the adoption and permitted by statute. |
| New Hampshire | Potentially covered expenses include:
Restrictions: Certain expenses are subject to statutory limits and timing requirements. |
| New Jersey |
Potentially covered expenses include:
Restrictions: Expenses must be reasonable and connected with the adoption, birth, or permitted support services. |
| New Mexico | Potentially covered expenses include:
Restrictions: Expenses must be reasonable and actual, and the court can review expenses connected with the adoption. |
| New York | Potentially covered expenses include:
Restrictions: New York places time limits on certain living expenses. Expenses must be reasonable and actually incurred. |
| North Carolina |
Potentially covered expenses include:
Restrictions: Counseling must generally be provided by a qualified professional as specified by North Carolina law. |
| North Dakota |
Potentially covered expenses include:
Restrictions: Living expenses are tied to loss of income or other support resulting from pregnancy. North Dakota also restricts certain categories of financial assistance. |
| Ohio |
Ohio’s current law is particularly important to update because the statutory living-expense limit increased in 2025. Potentially covered expenses include:
Restrictions: Ohio currently permits up to $6,000 in qualifying living expenses for the birth mother during pregnancy and through the 60th day after childbirth. The 2025 legislation increased the limit from $3,000 to $6,000. Review Ohio Revised Code § 3107.055.
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| Oklahoma | Potentially covered expenses include:
Restrictions: Oklahoma also permits a limited one-time gift to the birth mother, subject to the statutory limit. Other expenses must be reasonable and authorized by law. |
| Oregon |
Potentially covered expenses include:
Restrictions: Oregon requires adoption-related financial information to be disclosed as part of the adoption process. |
| Pennsylvania |
Potentially covered expenses include:
Restrictions: Pennsylvania specifically identifies permissible reimbursement of certain medical, hospital, and foster-care expenses and requires adoption-related financial information to be reported to the court. |
| Rhode Island |
Rhode Island does not specifically address birth-parent expenses in its adoption statutes. Restrictions: Do not assume that a category permitted in a neighboring state is also permitted in Rhode Island. State-specific legal guidance should be obtained before arranging payment. |
| South Carolina |
Potentially covered expenses include:
Restrictions: South Carolina requires documentation of adoption-related expenses. Receipts for birth-mother living expenses may be required, and expenses without appropriate receipts may be disallowed. Review South Carolina adoption statutes.
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| South Dakota |
South Dakota’s law takes a court-approval approach to adoption expenses. Potentially covered: Expenses approved by the court in connection with the adoption. Restrictions: Do not assume a particular living, medical, or other expense is permissible without court or legal review. |
| Tennessee |
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| Texas |
Texas law permits certain pregnancy-related expenses through a child-placing agency and separately permits payment for professional, legal, and medical services. Potentially covered expenses include:
Restrictions: Texas law prohibits exchanging something of value for the purchase or sale of a child. A statutory exception allows necessary pregnancy-related expenses paid by a child-placing agency for the benefit of the child’s parent when permitted by the applicable child-placing-agency rules. Review the Texas Family Code and Texas Penal Code § 25.08.
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| Utah | Potentially covered expenses include:
Restrictions: Expenses must be reasonable and connected to the adoption. |
| Vermont |
Potentially covered expenses include:
Restrictions: Certain expenses may require court approval. Review Vermont adoption statutes.
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| Virginia |
Potentially covered expenses include:
Restrictions: Living expenses are tied to the birth mother’s inability to work because of pregnancy, and payments must comply with Virginia’s adoption-expense requirements. Review Virginia adoption statutes.
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| Washington |
Potentially covered expenses include:
Restrictions: Washington requires adoption-related financial information to be disclosed to the court. Medical expenses may also involve Medicaid or other third-party coverage, and payment arrangements should be documented. Review Washington’s adoption statutes, including Chapter 26.33 RCW.
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| West Virginia | Potentially covered expenses include:
Restrictions: Expenses must be authorized by law and may require court approval. |
| Wisconsin | Potentially covered expenses include:
Restrictions: Wisconsin law limits certain categories, including maternity clothing, living expenses, and the value of a gift. The current statute should be reviewed before relying on a specific dollar amount. |
| Wyoming |
Wyoming does not specifically address birth-parent expenses in its adoption statutes. Restrictions: Because there is no specific statutory list of permissible birth-parent expenses, obtain current legal guidance before arranging financial assistance. |
Get Help With Birth Mother Expenses From The Supportive Team At Texas Adoption Center
At Texas Adoption Center, our team of professionals is passionate about making you feel safe and supported in your decisions. Even when things get complicated, we help you find the hope you need to embrace the better days ahead. As you make the right choice for yourself and your baby, our goal is to give you the information you need to choose with confidence.
In addition to the latest information about birth mother expenses by state, we provide the following essential services to our clients:
- Emotional Support
- Financial Support
- Medical Care and Health Insurance
- Housing and Transportation Assistance
For more information on the resources available to you, contact Texas Adoption Center at (512) 893-7943.





