i dont want to be pregnant but i dont want an abortion

“I Don’t Want To Be Pregnant But I Don’t Want An Abortion”

Finding out you’re pregnant can be scary. You don’t want an abortion, but you’re afraid of the consequences of being pregnant. You’re not alone. Many women decide abortion isn’t the right decision for them. We’re here to help.

It’s Your Choice

First of all, it’s important to remember that, whatever you decide, it’s your choice. No one can make this decision for you. Although it’s important to consult other people, such as trusted mentors or medical professionals, ultimately you are the one who knows what’s best for your baby’s future — and for yours. You have several different options.  Listen to your heart. Even though you didn’t choose to be pregnant, you are in charge of what happens next.

You Have Options

It’s important to remember that you do have options. Just because you are pregnant doesn’t mean that becoming a parent is not the only choice available to you. If abortion is not an option you want to consider (for whatever reason), your other options include adoption and parenting.


Adoption is beautiful.  It can also be emotionally challenging, but it is a completely selfless decision that allows you to give your baby the life you imagined for her or him. There are different kinds of adoption, and you get to choose what works for you. Do you want to choose the family? Would you like to get regular updates from them? Would you prefer not to be involved? Whatever you envision, we will support you and find a loving family that will partner with you.


Being a parent is wonderful, but it also comes with lots of responsibility.  If you’re considering parenting, there are many important questions to ask, including if you are financially ready to care for child. Though it is hard, sometimes choosing not to parent is the most loving and responsible choice you can make.

How We Can Help

If you decide that adoption is the best choice for you and your baby, we are here for you.  Our goal is to empower you with the information and emotional support you need to make the best decisions for yourself and for the future of your baby.

The ways that we can help you include:

  • Medical Care & Health Insurance: You deserve to have great medical care. If you need help finding a doctor, we can help you. If you decide to place your baby with Texas Adoption Center, all of your pregnancy, labor, delivery, and postpartum medical costs will be paid.
  • Housing & Transportation Assistance: We can help you with housing if you need our assistance. We can also help with transportation, such as going to doctor’s appointments or the grocery store.
  • Emotional Support:  Emotional support is extremely important for anyone going through the adoption process. We are here for you throughout your adoption journey and even afterwards. In fact, we will continue to support you for a long as you need.

You’re In Charge

It is extremely important to remember that you are in control of this decision. Only you can make the best choice for you and your baby. We will do our best to help provide you with all of the support that we can throughout this process.  Remember—whatever decision you end up making, you are a good mom!

For more information or to speak to one of our Adoption Specialists, visit our website. Be sure to follow us on FacebookInstagram and Twitter!

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