Adoption Quotes For Birth Mothers

adoption quotes for birth mothers

“Adoption should be an empowering option for young women in crisis, knowing that the people around them- family, friends, church – will respect their choice.”  Unknown

“He is mine in a way that he will never be hers, yet he is hers in a way that he will never be mine, and so together, we are motherhood.” Desha Woodall

“A Birthmother puts the needs of her child above the wants of her heart.” -Skye Hardwick

“Giving birth does not make a mother… Placing a child for adoption does not make her less of one.” Unknown

“I know (my birth mother) must have had a lot of love for me to want to give (me) what she felt was a better chance.” Faith Hill

“If you love someone unconditionally and with your whole heart, then you will do what is best for them, not you. I have never learned a harder lesson than giving my child up for adoption, and I probably never will.” Talitha

“Authenticity is the daily practice of letting go of who we think we’re supposed to be and embracing who we are… Mindfully practicing authenticity during our most soul-searching struggles is how we invite grace, joy, and gratitude into our lives.” -Brené Brown

“Adoption isn’t a birthmother’s rejection but an unconditional love that inspires her to put herself last and do all she can for her baby.” – Mary Hines

“The circumstances surrounding your birth are not as important as the opportunity to live life.” – Lailah Gifty Akita

Dear Birth Mothers

Know that you are loved. That you are cared about. That your feelings are not forgotten. Placing your baby for adoption is an incredibly brave and loving decision. However, that doesn’t mean it is easy. You may feel pain, sadness and even grief, even when you know you made the right decision to place your baby for adoption. It’s okay to feel. It’s okay to cry. It’s okay to need support.

You may feel like nobody understands what you’re going through. But, know this: your feelings matter.

At Texas Adoption Center, we’ve worked with women just like you. Perhaps you’re pregnant and considering placing your baby for adoption. Or, maybe you placed your baby for adoption years ago. No matter where you are in your journey, we want to support you.

Our adoption specialists can give you more information about the adoption process. Additionally, they can be a listening ear as you work through the many thoughts and feelings you have. If you’re thinking about placing your baby for adoption, give us a call today at 513.893.7943.

When you place your baby for adoption, being a birth mother becomes a part of your story, but it’s not your whole story. You will live and love and move through life, just like your child will. And what’s ahead? Beautiful, wonderful things for both you and your child.

Know that we will be there to support you throughout your life, not just during your pregnancy. We are here to support you.  Contact us today.

I Don’t Want To Be Pregnant- What Should I Do?

i dont want to be pregnant

So, you just found out you’re pregnant. Maybe you’ve known for a while but the more you think about it, the more you realize you don’t want to be pregnant.

Close your eyes and take a deep breath. It’s okay. Your thoughts may be swirling in your mind at a mile a minute. You may not know what to do about your pregnancy and you may not feel comfortable talking to anyone about it. The good news is, you’ve come to the right place.

Millions of women just like you have experienced the very same feelings you feel. Nearly half of all pregnancies were unintended between 2009 and 2013, according to data collected for a CDC study. You are not alone. And, even though it may not feel like it, you are in control.

Here’s what you need to know if you’re thinking to yourself, I don’t want to be pregnant:

You don’t have to be a mother if you don’t want to be. Additionally, you don’t have to be pregnant if you don’t want to be. You have options and the right to choose what’s best for you and your child.

Parenting

Raising a baby isn’t easy, but, it can be an amazing journey. Being a parent is a long-term commitment, too, requiring your time, finances, love and attention.

Nevertheless, motherhood can still be an option for you. An unplanned pregnancy can be daunting. Scary. Heartbreaking, even. But, if you choose to embark on the journey of motherhood, there are resources available for you.

Abortion

You do have the option to end your pregnancy. Abortion can be a touchy subject. However, when it comes to your life and your baby’s life, it doesn’t have to be a political issue. Still, ending your pregnancy is huge step and cannot be undone.

If you are considering getting an abortion, know that you are not alone. Try not to rush your decision. Instead, take the time to learn about all of your options. Know that you are free to make the best decision for your life and for your baby. It can be difficult to talk about considering abortion, but our Texas Adoption Center specialists would love to walk alongside you and support you as you make your decision.

Adoption

You don’t have to be a parent and your child can live an incredible life with a loving family. Adoption is a beautiful thing and can be an incredible option for pregnant women who aren’t ready to become mothers.

Our Texas Adoption Center specialists have seen the joy that adoption can bring firsthand and would love to give you more information. Our staff is ready and willing to stand by you and support you in whatever ways we can throughout your pregnancy.

Don’t have an adoptive family in mind? We can help with that and have access to amazing families who will welcome your child with open arms. We have the knowledge and resources to make the adoption process as smooth as possible for you. But, most of all, we genuinely care about you.

We’re here to help YOU create a beautiful future for yourself and your baby. Contact us today to learn more.

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